Daily Prompt – Happily Ever After

“And they lived happily ever after.” Think about this line for a few minutes. Are you living happily ever after? If not, what will it take for you to get there?

This particular Daily Prompt just called out to me for two reasons.

Living happily every after is something that happens to every fairy tale princess after their wedding to their prince.

And of course – not only are we about to embark on our secret getaway to the land where fairy tales come true, but we are doing it in honor of our first wedding anniversary. Yes, one year ago I married my prince. Although I’m not sure anyone would describe me as a fairy tale princess, we did have a magical day surrounded by love, laughter, family, friends and complete with castle.

The problem with fairy tales is that they always end at the wedding.

No story of derring do, love conquers all, true loves kiss and singing birds, who can also curiously do housework without crapping on the windowsill, ever mentions what comes next. The bit that follows, where happily ever after gets tested.

Mortgages. Work. Redundancy. Debt. Kids. Finding time for each other amongst the stress. Living next door to your in-laws. (No? Just me then, that one?)

Reality!

Although, I suppose the whole fairy tale aspect precludes reality getting a look in. It’s an oxymoron.

Not to say that people can’t and don’t live happily ever after. But I do think that you have to take a good hard look at what that actually means, take away the spoonful of sugar and see what really grows from your magic bean.

For example – if my ‘happily ever after’ was to live in a palace with singing wardrobes, stables full of prancing ponies, fairgrounds in the garden and racks of glass slippers, I could be setting my prince up for a definite fall. To be fair to him, that’s a lot to provide.

If however, it was to have a secure home with a pretty good standard of living, money to treat ourselves and the kids to a holiday every now and then, well that’s doable.

In addition, if it means that my prince is my best friend; that he can make me laugh when I’m sad and cheer me up when I’m grumpy, love me when I am wearing sweats and haven’t washed my hair in days, bring me coffee and aspirin when I have a hangover and cook  sausage and egg for Sunday breaky  – well, he is a prince to me.

The goalposts on happily ever after may move as we age,  lifestyles change and the kids grow up. I’m just a fickle princess. But as long as I have my prince, happily ever after seems pretty ok to me.

Happy anniversary Mr G.

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  1. On our wedding invites, we had the phrase: “Once in a while, in an ordinary life, a fairy tale comes along…” After six years — even with our blended home of four children, both of us with full-time jobs and more, busy life, etc. — a day never passes (really) when we don’t feel like we’re still living the life of a fairy tale. The truth is, even in fairy tales there are dragons, witches, trolls, Dick Cheney… but you face them together and find a way to win, whether with laughter or appreciation, to reach the happy ending each day. Sure, sometimes that happy ending follows a shot of vodka together, but the point is you still fall asleep holding hands and spooning. As long as no one farts. Even then, you just tell yourself it’s fairy dust. Really stinky fairy dust… 😉

    • Well, technically our anniversary is the day we leave, this weekend. So we will actually spend it driving a long way. Which is much less romantic, unless like me you like driving and road trips, in which case this could be fun. Some tunes, lots of sweets and a nice family dinner at the far end!

      • I’m with you – I love road trips, seeing new things, and just having fun in the car.

        I’ve been super busy and haven’t been able to read blogs for a while, but am glad I caught your post today. I hope your weather is gorgeous, every day magical, and that you make memories for a lifetime!

  2. Some days I feel like I’m living happily ever after and others I feel like I’m living just ‘ever after’ 😉

    Have a wonderful trip and Happy Anniversary for this weekend 😀

    • There has to be down days, otherwise we would not be able to recognise the ‘up’ days. They all cycle round – I reckon we all get a share of both, we just have to look hard for the ‘happily’ somedays.

      Thank you – 1 year! Goes far too fast. 🙂

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